Why Live-In Carers Don’t Have Bank Holidays

Illustration of a calendar page with the words “Bank Holiday” written on it, representing the theme of Bank Holidays and Live-In Care.

When the rest of the country is switching off, lighting barbecues, or heading to the coast for a long weekend, live-in carers are often still very much on. Bank holidays, while a welcome break for many, can look very different when you’re working in someone’s home — especially when that home is also your workplace. That’s the reality of bank holidays and live-in care: while others celebrate, our work continues.

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How to Spend Your Breaks as a Live-In Carer

A cup of coffee with latte art sits on a rustic wooden table beside scattered coffee beans, a notebook, and a pencil — symbolising taking break in the live in care.

When you live and work in someone’s home, the ability to “switch off” can be very challenging. Taking breaks in live-in care is not always straightforward — the person you’re looking after may find endless reasons why they need you right this minute. Sometimes it’s not even them, but an unusual sound in the house that makes you double-check all is well.

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When the NHS Feels Like a Maze

The last two weeks have felt like an endless game of pass-the-problem, only no one seems to want to catch it. That’s the reality of navigating NHS challenges as a live-in carer—you’re the one trying to connect all the missing pieces while keeping your client safe and comfortable.

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Leaving a Placement: The Bittersweet Goodbye

A delicate bouquet of white lily of the valley flowers placed on lined brown paper with the words “Thinking of you” written in cursive — a gentle, symbolic image for leaving a care placement.

No matter how many times I do this job, I never quite get used to the goodbyes.

There’s a quiet sort of ache that comes with leaving a care placement. Sometimes it’s expected — a planned discharge, a return home, a family stepping in. Other times, it comes with loss. But no matter the reason, walking out of a home where you’ve lived, worked, and cared always feels heavier than you think it will.

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The Bonds We Build: When Carers Become Family

A touching reflection on what happens when carers become family — where trust, connection, and quiet companionship shape life in live-in care.

I didn’t realise how easy professional boundaries blur, especially when you live in someone’s home and their routine becomes yours. Live-in care is a job, but sometimes it becomes something much more human. Something more complicated. Something more tender.

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